Hi, I'm Naomi,
I help women and men navigate separation and divorce with confidence, clarity and control – minimising stress, cost and conflict every step of the way.
Divorce is Challenging
But with the right divorce guidance, it can be less overwhelming. I’m Naomi Cao, a divorce coach and strategist. Having personally navigated my own divorce – including representing myself in financial and parenting settlements before the Federal Circuit Court- I understand how daunting and confusing the divorce process can be.
Most people hope for a smooth and straightforward separation, but it’s easy to take a wrong turn. Those missteps- legal, emotional, or financial – can have lasting effects long after the final documents are signed.
So, how do you move through this chapter with confidence and clarity? I believe that with the right separation support, tools and information, divorce can involve less stress, less conflict and less cost. You don’t have to face this alone.
That's where I come in.
As a divorce coach and strategist, I offer compassionate, knowledgeable divorce guidance to help you navigate the divorce process, stay focused on what matters most and create a stronger future – for you and your family.
Ready to move forward with clarity and confidence?
Here’s how I can help you take the next step.
Pre-Separation Advice
Planning on ending a long-term relationship? Where to start & what to consider.
Separation Advice
Understanding separation & co-parenting. Legal & financial considerations.
Family Court Guidance
Support with family court reports. Mistakes to avoid in proceedings.
Post-Separation Support
Moving forward after separation & divorce. Future planning & emotional recovery.
Relationship Coaching
- Reignite intimacy and teamwork in your romantic relationship
- Improve communication and collaboration with colleagues
- Strengthen understanding and respect in your family dynamics
I help women and men navigate separation and divorce with confidence
With years of experience supporting individuals through separation and divorce, I provide more than just advice—I offer a structured pathway to help you navigate this transition with clarity and confidence.
- A Trusted Expert: Understand the legal and emotional aspects of divorce.
- Compassionate Support:A safe space to process emotions and make sound decisions.
- Practical Strategies: Step-by-step action plans for legal, financial and emotional challenges.
- Network of Experts:Access to trusted lawyers, financial advisors and therapists.
Starting to prepare for separation?
Deciding whether to stay or leave is deeply personal and it’s okay to feel torn. Contact me for a free guide to support you as you reflect on what’s right for you. It gently walks you through questions to help you reconnect with yourself and gain the clarity you need to move forward, whatever that may look like.
How to Get Started
Book a Free 30-Minute
Discuss your situation and receive immediate guidance on the next steps.
Get Personalised Coaching & Resources
We’ll develop a strategy tailored to your needs, ensuring you feel informed and empowered.
Move Forward with Confidence
With expert support, practical tools, and a clear action plan, you’ll be in control of your future.
Getting Started is Simple
Book a Free 30-Minute
Discuss your situation and receive immediate guidance on the next steps.
Get Personalised Coaching & Resources
We’ll develop a strategy tailored to your needs, ensuring you feel informed and empowered.
Move Forward with Confidence
With expert support, practical tools, and a clear action plan, you’ll be in control of your future.
Getting Started is Simple
Book a Free 30-Minute
Discuss your situation and receive immediate guidance on the next steps.
Get Personalised Coaching & Resources
We’ll develop a strategy tailored to your needs, ensuring you feel informed and empowered.
Move Forward with Confidence
With expert support, practical tools, and a clear action plan, you’ll be in control of your future.
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Real Clients, Real Results
I had Naomi as my support person. She was like Wonder Woman. She was incredible.
She helped me stay focused to financially settle. It was a long, gruelling day but we managed to settle after 10 hours.
Thanks for all your help in the weeks leading up to mediation and on mediation day. You were amazing!
AC
Naomi helped me through one of the hardest times in my life. Her empathy, structure, and
support empowered me to move forward with confidence.
MM
Naomi empowered me to take control of my finances, rebuild my life, and reconnect
socially. I’ve made lifelong friends through her network.
GW
Naomi helped me set realistic goals and rediscover my strengths. Her encouragement and guidance gave me direction and purpose.
PC
Real Clients, Real Results
I had Naomi as my support person. She was like Wonder Woman. She was incredible.
She helped me stay focused to financially settle. It was a long, gruelling day but we managed to settle after 10 hours.
Thanks for all your help in the weeks leading up to mediation and on mediation day. You were amazing!
AC
RB
Thanks so much for your help in my divorce negotiations. It really made a difference having someone in my corner who understands. I love how you turn things around when something isn’t sitting right. You help me pause and identify what it is and problem solve It’s a game changer when writing orders! I really appreciate it, it makes a huge difference
JR
FAQS
What is a Divorce Coach?
A divorce coach is a professional who supports you through the emotional, logistical, and strategic aspects of divorce management. I help you navigate separation with confidence — offering clarity in chaos, tools for transition, and support for rebuilding.
How is coaching different from therapy or legal advice?
- Therapy focuses on healing past wounds.
- Legal advice comes from lawyers and relates to the legal process.
- Divorce coaching focuses on where you are now and where you’re going — emotionally, practically, and personally. It’s action-oriented and future-focused.
Do you work with couples, or just individuals?
While my primary focus is on individual divorce management and personal coaching, I do offer sessions for couples who are:
- Navigating an amicable separation
- Seeking support in co-parenting conversations
- Exploring whether to stay or separate with clarity and compassion
These sessions are not couples therapy — but rather a neutral, guided space to help both partners communicate clearly, make informed decisions, and approach the transition with mutual respect.
If you’re unsure whether to book as a couple or individually, feel free to reach out for a quick chat. We’ll find the best support path for your unique situation.
Who do you work with?
I work with women and men navigating separation or divorce — whether you’re still deciding, in the middle of it, or starting over. I also support individuals representing themselves in court, co-parenting challenges, and rebuilding post-divorce.
Do you give legal advice?
No. I am not a lawyer and do not give legal advice. But I help you prepare for meetings with lawyers, understand your options, and make informed decisions that align with your values and goals.
When should I get a coach?
It’s never too early (or too late). Whether you’re just thinking about separation or already deep in the process, coaching helps you move through it with clarity and confidence.
How do sessions work?
We start with a free 30 min call, followed by a 2 hour discovery call. From there, we can work 1:1 online or in person. Each session is tailored to your needs — whether that’s unpacking your next steps, preparing for court, navigating tricky co-parenting moments, or rebuilding your life post-split.
What are your fees?
I offer various coaching packages to meet your needs and budget. Book a free call to learn more about how we can tailor your divorce management plan.
Ready to Take Control of Your Divorce?
Divorce doesn’t have to feel impossible.
Let’s create a plan that puts you in control.