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Hi, I'm Naomi,

I help women and men navigate separation and divorce with confidence, clarity and control – minimising stress, cost and conflict every step of the way.

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Divorce is Challenging

But with the right divorce guidance, it can be less overwhelming.
I’m Naomi Cao, a divorce coach and strategist. Having personally navigated my own divorce – including representing myself in financial and parenting settlements before the Federal Circuit Court- I understand how daunting and confusing the divorce process can be.


Most people hope for a smooth and straightforward separation, but it’s easy to take a wrong turn. Those missteps- legal, emotional, or financial – can have lasting effects long after the final documents are signed.

So, how do you move through this chapter with confidence and clarity? I believe that with the right separation support, tools and information, divorce can involve less stress, less conflict and less cost. You don’t have to face this alone.

That's where I come in.

As a divorce coach and strategist, I offer compassionate, knowledgeable divorce guidance to help you navigate the divorce process, stay focused on what matters most and create a stronger future – for you and your family.

Ready to move forward with clarity and confidence?

Here’s how I can help you take the next step.

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Pre-Separation Advice

Planning on ending a long-term relationship? Where to start & what to consider.

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Separation Advice

Understanding separation & co-parenting. Legal & financial considerations.

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Family Court Guidance

Support with family court reports. Mistakes to avoid in proceedings.

Post-Separation Support

Moving forward after separation & divorce. Future planning & emotional recovery.

Relationship Coaching

Reignite Connection – at home, at work and beyond After seven years as a Divorce Coach, I’ve seen the same warning signs appear time and again before relationships break down – whether between partners, colleagues or even parents and children.
The truth is, most relationships don’t fail overnight. They fade through disconnection, imbalanced effort and a slow erosion of communication.
That’s why I created a framework to help people not just repair, but revive their relationships – by identifying key markers of strain early and rebuilding the skills that sustain lasting connection.
As a Relationship Coach, I help you:
  • Reignite intimacy and teamwork in your romantic relationship
  • Improve communication and collaboration with colleagues
  • Strengthen understanding and respect in your family dynamics
Because every relationship – personal or professional – thrives when both sides feel seen, heard and valued.
Let’s bring awareness, balance and warmth back into your connections – before distance turns into disconnection.

I help women and men navigate separation and divorce with confidence

With years of experience supporting individuals through separation and divorce, I provide more than just advice—I offer a structured pathway to help you navigate this transition with clarity and confidence.

Starting to prepare for separation?

Deciding whether to stay or leave is deeply personal and it’s okay to feel torn. Contact me for a free guide to support you as you reflect on what’s right for you. It gently walks you through questions to help you reconnect with yourself and gain the clarity you need to move forward, whatever that may look like.

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How to Get Started

Book a Free 30-Minute

Discuss your situation and receive immediate guidance on the next steps.

Get Personalised Coaching & Resources

We’ll develop a strategy tailored to your needs, ensuring you feel informed and empowered.

Move Forward with Confidence

With expert support, practical tools, and a clear action plan, you’ll be in control of your future.

Getting Started is Simple

Book a Free 30-Minute

Discuss your situation and receive immediate guidance on the next steps.

Get Personalised Coaching & Resources

We’ll develop a strategy tailored to your needs, ensuring you feel informed and empowered.

Move Forward with Confidence

With expert support, practical tools, and a clear action plan, you’ll be in control of your future.

Getting Started is Simple

Book a Free 30-Minute

Discuss your situation and receive immediate guidance on the next steps.

Get Personalised Coaching & Resources

We’ll develop a strategy tailored to your needs, ensuring you feel informed and empowered.

Move Forward with Confidence

With expert support, practical tools, and a clear action plan, you’ll be in control of your future.

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FAQS

What is a Divorce Coach?

A divorce coach is a professional who supports you through the emotional, logistical, and strategic aspects of divorce management. I help you navigate separation with confidence — offering clarity in chaos, tools for transition, and support for rebuilding.

  • Therapy focuses on healing past wounds.
  • Legal advice comes from lawyers and relates to the legal process.
  • Divorce coaching focuses on where you are now and where you’re going — emotionally, practically, and personally. It’s action-oriented and future-focused.

While my primary focus is on individual divorce management and personal coaching, I do offer sessions for couples who are:

  • Navigating an amicable separation
  • Seeking support in co-parenting conversations
  • Exploring whether to stay or separate with clarity and compassion

These sessions are not couples therapy — but rather a neutral, guided space to help both partners communicate clearly, make informed decisions, and approach the transition with mutual respect.

If you’re unsure whether to book as a couple or individually, feel free to reach out for a quick chat. We’ll find the best support path for your unique situation.

I work with women and men navigating separation or divorce — whether you’re still deciding, in the middle of it, or starting over. I also support individuals representing themselves in court, co-parenting challenges, and rebuilding post-divorce.

No. I am not a lawyer and do not give legal advice. But I help you prepare for meetings with lawyers, understand your options, and make informed decisions that align with your values and goals.

It’s never too early (or too late). Whether you’re just thinking about separation or already deep in the process, coaching helps you move through it with clarity and confidence.

We start with a free 30 min call, followed by a 2 hour discovery call. From there, we can work 1:1 online or in person. Each session is tailored to your needs — whether that’s unpacking your next steps, preparing for court, navigating tricky co-parenting moments, or rebuilding your life post-split.

I offer various coaching packages to meet your needs and budget. Book a free call to learn more about how we can tailor your divorce management plan. 

Ready to Take Control of Your Divorce?

Divorce doesn’t have to feel impossible.
Let’s create a plan that puts you in control.